Yikes.
The number of times I've heard men say in some quarters that they miss having all their rights...
It's usually sheer ignorance, a complete lack of genuine female friends who they MEANINGFULLY connect with, and the lack of about 100,000 hours of meaningful conversations with women.
I love seeing speakers like yourself Jamila. Passionate and informative. Compelling, pertinent and forceful in your convictions. Who could argue with this statement of patent unfairness?
Comedians sometimes joke about couples who fight lovingly over the ideal temperature on the thermostat. This ain't that.
When it's your workplace and it's mandatory? And you're not even consulted? And, you're statistically likely to be underpaid according to your colleagues, and less likely to end up in a board room, and be A LOT more likely to suffer from direct and indirect unwanted attention? The more you look at it all, the more it doesn't look good.
Having said that.
I always like to pontificate on all possibilities. For posterity. Has this objection ever been raised? How is it responded to when it's raised? One could reasonably imagine that some bosses barely know whether the air conditioner is running.
Not that that's an excuse for a single office or an industry. I merely mean to query because if we want united and industry-wide action, we must consider the kinds of tactics that can ensure permanent progress in the right direction. So, we must understand the scope and extent of all culpability. Any employer who refuses to change will clearly be in a compromising position. Yet I wish to also know why these problems all persisted for so long. Some for 1000s of years, and some for decades.
But always too long.
After the holocaust, the ALLIES collected as much evidence and took as many photos as they could. So the world would remember and know what to avoid and why. Can we learn from understanding every single detail that led us here? If there is direct AND unwitting prejudice across many industries in our cities, will we reverse engineer it all?
I sincerely hope your message is heard. And understood. And discussed in homes, board rooms and in government. It's clearly a message that's LONG OVERDUE.
I'm sincerely sorry that you have to even mention it. Let alone fight for it. Air conditioning temperatures?
That's not why we do what we do. You're a hero.
Jamila Rizvi is a best-selling author and the deputy managing director of gender equality and advocacy organisation FW (Future Women). At their annual leadership summit she explained the different ways inequality can manifest in our everyday lives.
Video by @futurewomen on Instagram
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