Every morning I wake up, I ask myself 3 questions:
→ Am I a good leader? If not, what can I do to improve?
→ How can I make my team proud of the place they work?
→ And what’s new to learn?
Being a leader is a great journey marked by tough jobs.
Sometimes I have to put my feet in my employees’ shoes again.
I remember how scalp-scratching frustration used to kill me when they spoke about the problems as if they were solely related to me, and how relieved I used to feel when someone said, “It’s okay Roberto, we will handle it together.”
I realised that telling someone they're not meeting expectations felt harsh and unproductive.
Hence, here’s a better way:
Instead of focusing on what hasn’t been achieved, I started involving my team in the problem-solving process.
For example,
Rather than saying, "You haven't met your goals," I would say, "We’re facing this issue as a team, and the results aren’t what we hoped for. What do you think is going wrong?"
This shift in approach not only reduces the discomfort of the conversation but also often leads to insightful solutions.
Sometimes, employees come up with ideas that show that we may have set things up poorly from the start.
I love this approach and also recommend you all use it because it creates a collaborative environment where everyone feels valued and heard.
#Leadership #Teamwork #Communication #GrowthMindset
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