Since medical school, I've been looking for a mentor, striving to find that one person who could guide and inspire me. Although I engaged academically with many impressive role models at my home institution, I felt there was a lack of deeper, nurturing professional bonds. When I came to Boston as a graduate student, I hoped to turn this situation around and connect with people who would push me toward my goals and advocate for me when needed. Yet, I still haven't found the mentor I am looking for. This challenge is even harder for a foreign national who is still trying to learn about the system and has to struggle twice as hard to prove their value and potential.
I recently met a fellow medical graduate from Europe. He was fortunate enough to find a PI from his home country who has been working in the Harvard system for years and sponsored him to come as a postdoc. When I inquired about his experience, he acknowledged his PI as a mentor, but after four months, he still hasn’t had conversations about his roadmap for success or independent projects. Sadly, I think this is the case for many PIs, who see the members of their teams not as mentees but as employees. Don't get me wrong, there's an argument for that, but I think human bonds in science should be based primarily on mutuality and equitable growth for everyone involved.
Defining genuine mentorship has been a learning curve for me. I firmly believe that great mentors are out there, but it takes self-awareness to search in the right places and courage to showcase our strengths and potential.
This beautiful piece by Dr. Koven helped me articulate my understanding of true mentorship. It's one of the most self-challenging and uplifting perspectives I've read in years—a must-read for every healthcare professional.
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