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Moya Sarner

Moya Sarner is a freelance feature writer

July 2024

  • A hand squeezing a stress-relieving ball

    How to build a better life
    Face your anger and let it out. It’s the only way to stay healthy

  • Illustration showing a man hugging his son

    How to build a better life
    If you care about someone, show them – and put away your phone

June 2024

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    How to build a better life
    Angry? Disappointed? Heartbroken? Think twice before you call the feelings police

  • Perfectionism – a kind of psychological fascism.

    How to build a better life
    I’m a recovering perfectionist. Here’s how I embraced the joy of ‘good enough’

May 2024

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    How to build a better life
    Grief is horrible – but it’s supposed to be. We have to feel a loss before we can grow through it

  • G2: How to build a better life - connect with your pain, you can't just cut it out

    How to build a better life
    We all want to cut out the bad parts of ourselves. It won’t work, and it won’t make us happier

April 2024

  • Man stands with his fingers in his ears as if to stop his infernal internal voice.

    How to build a better life
    Do you want to receive more love? First get to know your superego

    It’s the internal voice whose strict, unbending standards can make us miserable. But tuning in to it can change everything

March 2024

  • A couple looking at their reflection in a swimming pool

    How to build a better life
    The secret to good relationships? Accept family and friends for who they really are

  • Graphic shows side portrait of a man looking to the sky, behind him is some blocks of colour.

    How to build a better life
    The one question we all need to ask ourselves – and how to tune in to the answer

March 2023

  • Nicky Marchbank in the Kent village where she lives and has set up a community cafe.

    A winter of the mind: how to escape survival mode

    For many of us, it has been a cold and traumatic year. But, as one reader found, difficult times can lead to new and revolutionary ways of thinking

December 2022

  • Illustration of neighbours having a glass of wine together over a fence

    How can you be the best possible parent, lover, friend, citizen or tourist? Here’s what the experts think

    It’s not easy being a ‘good’ person – what can we learn from the people who have thought about it the most?

June 2022

  • Older couple in swimming gear with old-fashioned No Smoking, No Diving and No Running signs behind them

    Does anyone ever really feel ‘grown up’? I asked some older people to find out

    I’m an adult, with the white goods and paperwork to prove it. So why don’t I feel it? I went on a quest to find out

April 2022

  • Pete Knapp – Climate Anxiety feature

    ‘I was enjoying a life that was ruining the world’: can therapy treat climate anxiety?

    People are increasingly looking for help to deal with feelings of fear, helplessness and guilt amid the climate crisis. But can therapists make a difference and is seeking treatment just a form of denial?

August 2021

  • A woman burping in the face of a man who looks shocked

    ‘The soundtrack to my life was burping and farting’: how disgusting is your partner?

    Living and working in the same space has given many couples an unwanted insight into each other’s dirtiest habits. But should we really find them so gross?

June 2021

  • ‘That switch from being safe to being unsafe, the loss of a sense of the other, is quite traumatic.’

    ‘It was so nasty. He laughed in my face’: How to love and trust again after a big romantic betrayal

    When a long-term partner cheats on you it can be devastating, but it is possible to move on in time. Here, experts and Guardian readers explain how best to rebuild your life

May 2021

  • Rhian Mannings: ‘I know it’s made me a better person.’

    Post-traumatic growth: the woman who learned to live a profoundly good life after loss

    After the deaths of her son and husband, Rhian Mannings emerged slowly from grief to start a charity and find love again. What does her experience tell us about how suffering can change us?

April 2021

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    Brain fog: how trauma, uncertainty and isolation have affected our minds and memory

    After a year of lockdown, many of us are finding it hard to think clearly, or remember what happened when. Neuroscientists and behavioural experts explain why

March 2021

  • The social biome ... your relationship ecosystem.

    Lockdown living
    The social biome: how to build nourishing friendships – and banish loneliness

    All your daily interactions with others, big and small, make up your social biome, and the pandemic has severely damaged most of ours. Here’s how to reinvigorate it

October 2019

  • Diane Munday (right) and Sam

    Weekend magazine generation gap special
    ‘You've got to carry on that fight’: strangers swap life-changing experiences

    How does it feel to campaign against racism, come out, have an abortion or lose a parent to suicide? People who went through the same things, years apart, share their stories

August 2019

  • Illustration of couple

    Will you marry us, mate? Why couples are choosing friends to conduct their weddings

    It’s your big day, so why let a stranger run the show? Three couples explain why they opted for the personal touch
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